Monday, November 21, 2016

Fourth of July Lordsburg 2016

I have spent some of my best Independence days in Lordsburg, NM, and this year was no exception! 
We were so happy that Emilee and Chip were able to come down from Utah for the holiday. We were so happy that we ambushed them with water balloons the moment they showed up! We left some balloons on the side of the road for them to make it a fair fight.
 And as with all Payne family fights, at some point someone took it too far and got hurt...Bekah ran into Spencer's hard head (he's the one on Doug's shoulders) and banged her front tooth.

We went to the city pool on the fourth of July because they open it up for free that day...and because we love it! It has a slide and it's not too crowded. It also has a beach entrance so Marianne took off her life jacket and swam around under the water with her goggles almost the whole time. I love seeing my kids love swimming!
I took my face paints to the fireworks so I could give everyone a little red, white, and blue. Doesn't this picture just have summer written all over it?
 Emilee had a little girl time with the little girls. She has the BEST nail stuff! She even did mine - my first set of gel nails!
 Roger planted a two acre farm this year. The first day when we came in it was flooded, but it drained out pretty quickly. One of the days we helped him and Louise plant dozens of tomato plants. One of the nights Carla, Doug, Emilee, Chip, Rus and I went rabbit hunting at the farm. The rabbits were eating up everything that was coming up. Rus and Doug shot a few rabbits and I shot my first rabbit!
Oh I love this family!



Even if they're a little crazy! (Well maybe because they're a little crazy...)

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June in Chandler with the Family

This past June I went to visit my family in Chandler and Mesa, Arizona. My niece Madison had had back surgery in May for scoliosis, my sister Amanda (Madison's mom) was still recovering from a broken ankle that had required surgery, and my parents had bought a house across the street from her and were (of course!) fixing it up. My plan was to come and play and entertain my sister's kids while she worked during the day.
It is HARD to find things to do when the temperature outside averages 110! The first thing we did was go bowling! From the left: Jacob, Bekah, Madison, Hayden, Beau, and Marianne.
 I really loved seeing my sister Amanda! She and my mom had taken in Bekah for two weeks while I was at girl's camp with Rus. Bekah had wanted to go to Amanda's early to spend time with Madison while she recovered from her surgery.
 Another day trip we took was to Ikea. I love Ikea! The kids were not super impressed - truth be told they are a lazy bunch and would rather spend all day playing video games. As I am against wasting time with video games, I bribed them with an Ikea lunch...and I came up with an Ikea scavenger hunt in which the winner got a prize. It kept them busy for over an hour...and they put a couple miles on walking all over Ikea to find the things on their hunt.
Yes that is a real live tree Jacob purchased an is hugging.
 We celebrated Father's day with my dad while we were there. Tyler, Gina and Layton came over too. Tyler always grows facial hair for Father's day...
 Layton endured most of the attention given him by the adoring Marianne...
My dad really wanted cherry pie. So that's what we made him.

 We headed out to the park at about 8pm...that's when the temperature drops closer to 100 degrees so it's not completely unbearable. Preston is holding Marianne. She LOVES her big boy cousins!
 I love, adore, admire, respect, and honor my dad!
 And he couldn't be as terrific as he is without my mother!
It was a beautiful night! The temple and the moon in the same shot!!

 This picture was moments before the crew decided to lure ducks out of the water to try to put grass leashes on them...they were unsuccessful.
 One thing we thought would work great in all that intense heat was a pizza solar oven. I think it would have worked if we hadn't tried something so ambitious. Thinner cookies would have been a good idea...

Another field trip we took was to the lego store at the mall. The kids were super excited to go to the store, and then super disappointed that everything was so expensive. Marianne liked trying on these tentacles at the aquarium gift shop across the mall.

 Who wouldn't want to spend time with these awesome boys?!

 That is a lego sculpture in the background! How awesome would it be to have that for your job?!
 The kids and I took a day to go see the Hartmans. We saw Clay and Mary...
 And Tom and Suzi's not so new baby Spencer - the chubbiest, happiest baby you've ever seen!
Tom and Suzi have a pool - a MUST in that crazy heat! Silvia brought her kids to swim with us while we were there.
 We were also able to meet up with Silvia Hartman and her kids at a swimming pool. Did you know when it's 120 degrees you don't really need a towel? The water just sizzles off of you in a few minutes...
The last thing we did before heading home was a little tie-dye project. We all made fourth of July shirts. Here's Preston with his.
 And Madison with hers
And all of them out on the line:

It was an excellent trip! I love spending time with my family!

Girls' Camp with the Fourth Years

Rus and I were asked to be the fourth year leaders at girls camp this last June. The fourth year girls go on a 3-day, 2-night backpacking trip and this was the main focus that Rus and I had - taking 11 girls out, getting them to do hard things, hike far, and work together. 
It was a blast to do this hike with Rus! We scouted out the trail about a week before and found it to be a fairly difficult trail with numerous water crossings - but it was breathtakingly beautiful as well!
(First water crossing)
The meadows were one of my favorite parts - they were so green and lush and had these gently rolling hills that looked like they could be in a movie.
My mountain man made this possible. He is so knowledgeable about surviving and enjoying the outdoors! It doesn't hurt that he's a mountain goat too.
One awesome place we found on our hike was an abandoned sawmill. All of the ends of the lumber had been piled and left there for decades. A river cuts under and around the pile, and I'm sure all sort of animals live inside of it. We didn't let the girls climb on it because it is potentially quite unstable...but I snuck up there for a picture on our scouting trip.
See? Gorgeous meadow!
The river was incredible - there were all sorts of little falls and rapids to take in. I loved this one because it looks so man-made - but that's all natural!
This was a picture we took on our scouting trip. When we came back a week later I couldn't have even stood there anymore - the water was flowing even more (which made all of our water crossings with the girls a little more exciting!)
This is the meadow where we camped the first night. A couple of tiny creeks flow through.
Here's my Manly Mountain Man (that's what the girls called him) on the Nob.
And here are all of our girls! This is all of them before we headed out...which might be why they are all smiling...Erica and Tim Winter were our assistants and they were fantastic!
It started drizzling before we made it to our campsite, so we set everything up in a light rain. But it wasn't too cold or awful. It was fun to see what everyone brought to eat - there was so much food!
Here's a shot of our bear bags. Only manly men like Tim and Rus could get that sucker hoisted up. Believe me, no bear feasted on our food!
My absolute favorite part of the hike was were this natural spring ran down the side of the mountain and joined the river below. I love how mossy it was!
Rus and I snuck a kiss during this group shot in front of the huge lumber pile.
Here are Erica and I bookending all of our ladies. They did a FANTASTIC job - no complaining, excellent listeners, supportive of each other.
The last couple who led this hike did it for 30 years. I'm hoping that Rus and I get at least 12 years so we can take both of our girls. It was an unforgettable experience. I think we all learned that we can do very hard things - and that we don't have to suffer through them - we can enjoy difficult experiences!

Father Sons

Rus loves backpacking with his sons! This last May he took them up near Tres Ritos with his friend Jeremy and his son Gavin.
 
 Jacob has some fascination with swinging instruments of destruction.
For May it was still pretty snowy on the trail! They actually had to change their plans when they got up there because the trail became too impassable with all the snow.
They found another trail though and enjoyed the warmish weather (it wasn't as cold as it looked they said!) and the snow drifts.

I am grateful that he takes them backpacking!

Sunday, November 6, 2016

Building of the Great Wall

Last April our family started on the biggest project we've tackled so far (aside of remodeling our house). We wanted to enclose a courtyard space in the front yard with a concrete block stuccoed wall.
Here it is from the beginning:
This lovely view of the neighbor's house across the street is actually meant to show the trenches we had to dig before pouring our footings for the wall. (And before this happened we had to shovel away a WHOLE LOT of landscaping rocks!) These 18" deep, 12" wide trenches (approximately 70 feet of them) were dug with a whole lotta muscle - muscle from each of us, the missionaries, random youth that were long-boarding down the street, a strong young rugby player from our ward...really anyone whom we could trick into holding a shovel. There are other trenches not shown that were for irrigation and electrical purposes.
A part of the courtyard that had to be done before the space was enclosed was a smallish patio area. It was about 15' square, and will eventually be covered by a pergola. Marianne was of course assisting in the work - her dollhouse and barbie are evidence.
Once the trenches were dug and rebar was placed in them, and everything was reinforced and ready to go, we were able to pour concrete. I did some research about how to best get the job done and found that we would need to have a concrete mixer truck come with the concrete, as well as a pump truck that could get the concrete up into the yard where it needed to be. I got everything ordered and scheduled for the Saturday before Easter. Friday night at about 4pm the concrete company called and said that they would have to cancel; they didn't have enough work scheduled for the next day to justify mixing up the concrete.
I was FURIOUS. And I desperately called around to find someone who could help, with no luck. We had Rus' dad in town to help, my dad was committed to helping, and Jake and Doug were available to help too. I didn't want to waste all of the manpower that we had accumulated. Also we had rented some tools specific to working the concrete and I wanted to get our money's worth out of them. I think everyone else was relieved though, and happy that Saturday would be more restful.
I prayed that night that something would work out. In the early morning I couldn't sleep because I was thinking about our predicament. Something one of the companies had said when I called them stuck in my mind and I knew that they would be open and operating at 7am. I was ready with the phone at 7 on the dot and I was able to schedule a delivery for later that morning. It was really a miracle because the company I called had the right pump mix (a concrete mix with gravel pieces small enough to go through a pump), and the pump truck I had scheduled was still available to accommodate me. HOORAY! I was ecstatic and excitedly woke him up to hear the news. It took him about an hour before he felt the same way.
Anyway, Roger had to come help that morning after all! (He was probably the happiest when our plans had fallen through.)
Marianne wanted to wear her hat so she could be like both her grandpas!
Our concrete mixer was PINK! Yay!
Here Rus is holding the pump hose and my dad and I are squishing it around so it fills in everywhere.
I don't have more pics of the footing or the pad when it was poured, but everything worked out great! I was especially happy that the pad turned out good because we had never poured anything that large ourselves.
A couple weeks later we were able to start laying concrete blocks. It was a painful, arduous, tedious process to start, but we gradually improved in skill and speed. One hiccup was that somehow the footing on the left was 2" shorter than the footing on the right. We wound up cutting down dozens of blocks so that the courses would match on each side. That caused more than a few tears and headaches!
View of the left:
View of the Center: (See! There's the finished concrete pad!)
Whole view:
Progress! You can see the windows start to take shape.
Left:
Center:
Right:
Whole view:
Whole view with the right side caught up to the left:
The next hurdle was figuring out how to lay block above the windows. We could only do two of these at a time because we didn't have enough frames or clamps or honestly, skill, to do more. It's a miracle that they turned out okay. The two blocks above each window were U-shaped and had to be filled with concrete and reinforced with rebar. The clamps and the wood frames held the blocks in place while the concrete dried. I can't explain Marianne's face here at all.
View of the Left:
Center:
Right:
Whole view:
This is when we were finishing up the last course of one part of the wall. I teased Rus that I felt like he was building a wall between us...
It was HUGE when we placed the course of capstones on the wall!
View of the Left:
Center:
Right:
I haven't mentioned yet the community response to our wall building project. It really was a community response. We were out working on this wall every weekend and most weeknights, with all of the kids engaged one way or another. We had a couple people stop every Saturday in their cars to tell us good job on our progress. Almost every person who was walking by would comment as well. We had a neighbor who had hired men to lay a brick driveway. The hispanic family that was leading that project said they were really impressed that our whole family was often out there working, and that we were doing a good job. Another neighbor complimented us and said he should have hired us to do the wall in his back yard. I told him that we're cheap, but SUPER slow!
Whole view:

 Once the wall was built but before we could stucco it, we had to put a protective coating on the inside of the wall where our garden beds will be. If you put a lot of dirt up against a stuccoed wall, and then water it a lot, eventually the water will seep through the block and cause the stucco on the outside of the wall to detach and crumble. Knowing that we would have raised beds against the wall, we applied a thick gooey protective sealant to protect the stucco on the outside from sloughing off.
Right inside view:
Left inside view:
We also had to put metal edging up against the windows and where the wall ended for the gate. This would make the edges look nice and clean when we went to stucco them.
Stucco requires a base coat and then a top coat. The base coat was time consuming and challenging. The texture had to be just right because it would show through the top coat. Any inconsistencies in the block had to be covered up and leveled with the base coat. Rus and I got very good at mixing up the base coat/mud, troweling on the mud, spreading it out with a trowel, smoothing it with a darby, and then sponging it even smoother with sponge trowels. Don't get me wrong, this was the hardest part, but I honestly enjoyed it the most!

View of right:
We ordered a synthetic stucco that came in buckets already mixed and colored. We made a last minute decision to buy a drywall hopper (think paint sprayer on steroids), and it turned out to be a very good one. This part went SO MUCH FASTER than applying the base coat!
View of the left side:


 My HOT honey spraying the right side...that hopper filled with stucco was HEAVY. Rus and I took turns until we realized he was better at doing that and I was better at floating the texture.
Whole view, FINISHED!
We didn't waste time putting up a little flower bed on the left side with block that had been retaining dirt elsewhere before the project.
Another big accomplishment was putting up these gate posts. They are HUGE timbers - solid 8x8 posts. Rus and I cut the ends into corbels on the band saw (that was a lesson in communication, let me tell you!). He notched the posts and the top post so that they actually dovetail together. Such a smart, competent craftsman!
Last but not least, and not pictured, we framed out each window with a 2x8 frame and two latillas (round posts) in each opening.
It was a magnificent project, and I am so grateful for all that our family learned while doing it. Most of all we learned this:
We know how to work hard as a family.
We CAN do hard things!