I now know that there is a whole other level to kid's school lunches, a level that I was blissfully ignorant of beforehand. My kids were (are) perfectly content to take their lunches in a walmart bag. They don't have to, because they each own at least two lunchboxes from previous eras, but I guess they like the disposability of the brown paper sack or the walmart bag. They were (are) sick and tired of pb&h sandwiches and have been begging for something different. That is why I went to the lunch night.
And now I know how the other half do it. *sigh*
Let me first say that the following information came from fabulous mothers that my children would love to have pack their lunches. These women are truly amazing, but they are also many things that I will never be, which are super organized, super detail oriented and super health/food/environmentally conscious. I am sure that unlike me, all of you actually are aware of what I will call "The Art of Lunch," so just bear with me and my ignorance.
First. PB&J's (or PB&H's as I grew up with), are a thing of the past. If they are included in lunches they are made on homemade bread and are cut into cute shapes. They are even made without peanut butter somehow because other kids at school might have a peanut allergy. I ate PB&H's every day for 12 years, but if I make my kids do that I am...?
Second. Where routine lunches once offered stability, lunches high in variety are now important because they offer a break from the monotony and they say "I love you" better than plain old lunch food used to do. It is not acceptable to pack the same thing every day. At least alternate treats and cookies and vegetables so that your child can feign surprise and delight every other day.
Third. CONTAINERS. It is really ALL about using appropriate containers. They have to be the right size. They have to be washable, but not cost a lot just in case your child throws them away on accident. They must be modular in design so that four different sizes can fit together in the lunchbox in a variety of formations without leaving any large gaps (because gaps mean that the contents might shift in unpleasant ways). ABOVE ALL THEY MUST NOT LEAK. Baggies are still used, I guess, but they are placed in the appropriate container as well.
Fourth. Hot and cold. You must be able to keep hot things hot and cold things cold. Your child will not eat his chili if it is not warm, his cantaloupe if it is not cold, or leftovers from the previous night if they are not at the appropriate temperature. Hummus and ranch and salsa, oh my. I know, I know...I am totally assuming that your kids like food that normal people eat. They should, because it packs better in the nifty containers that you're supposed to use. Thermoses are good for hot things and ice packs are necessary for cold things.
Fifth. Napkins and hand sanitizer. When you pack your child's lunch with a variety of colors and foods and flavors, napkins are just icing on the cake. They are also a tangible assumption that your child has manners, doesn't use his shirt to wipe off his mouth, and cares in general about being clean. Hand sanitizer is handily attached with a clip to the handle of the lunchbox and is likewise a tangible display of your naivety that your child actually cares about germs.
I'm sorry, you probably sense (you should sense) my sarcasm. It's the last defense mechanism I have before acceptance and compliance.
Now, below you will find my concessions to "the way lunches should be packed." I am not changing my methods because the crowd told me to, I am changing them because my kids were not happy and the crowd gave me reasonable alternatives. But I still refuse to spend a lot of money on their lunch food or spend a lot of time making another meal for them. Lunches should be fast and cheap. (But I concede, they can also taste good and offer variety).
Anyway, my kids happily reviewed the suggestions that I gleaned from my "Art of Lunch" group and are excited to see something different everyday from now on and never EVER eat a sandwich again. (ha.)
Bekah said she would like to try some kabobs with pepperonis, cheese, and olives on them. She also said she would like to take the JIF peanut butter cups with celery, apples, and carrots to dip in them. I also bought her cherry tomatoes and red bell peppers because she loves them.
Jacob said he would like to try pigs in a blanket, macaroni and cheese, and pancakes with syrup. He said he would eat carrots, too.
Also shown are cherries and Clif Z Bars, which I was told are protein bars for kids, so they could eat that instead of a sandwich. I have to look into that because the ingredients look suspiciously like a granola bar. I know that kraft mac and cheese would not be considered a healthy or even edible option by many a mother, but it is different than pb&j, right? The green container on the right is a small thermos that I bought at Sunflower market (Sprouts). It is Fuel brand and cost a wonderful $2.92. The small container on top of it is Glad brand and came in a pack of six for $2.28. It's good for holding syrup (for the pancakes) or anything else my kids might want to dip into.
I found these containers at Target that are sectioned and say that they will not leak from one section to the other. One package comes with two containers and costs $2.69.
I bought them lunch boxes that are insulated and that perfectly hold their ziplock containers. The lunchboxes came with waterbottles; we'll have to see if they are leak-proof or not. They were on sale at Target for $9.08 each. It seems that other moms like the idea of their child being able to see all of their lunch when the lunchbox is open on the table, so I kept that in mind when selecting "the perfect lunchbox".
I'll have to let you know how all of this goes. In case you're interested, here are some other ideas for lunches that I'm hoping my kids will try:
Soft pretzels
pizza pockets
bagels with cream cheese
pasta noodles and cheese
kabobs with fruit or slices of deli meat
waffles and syrup
rice with soy sauce
meatballs
Ug. Farewell, plain old easy pb&h. Hopefully this all pays off and my children's happiness levels increase while their palates expand and their stomachs fill up with healthier and more satisfying food.
I give it a month.
9 comments:
Currently, we don't pack anything for lunch. Usually I slap some Nutella on a piece of bread, and the kids fold it in half (because they want to show their independence) and possibly some grapes or apples on the side. Every. Day. Mac 'n cheese with hot dogs on a rare occasion. Isn't a little variety enough at dinnertime? :) I am exhausted merely from reading all those expectations. Is "The Art of Lunch" in my future? I have a feeling that I am a mom like you. Which, I am okay with. Especially because I think you're awesome. But, unlike you, I have a really hard time when I see what other people are doing. I really need to work on that one...care more about my children and what is best for them/will make them happy and less about what other people think. But kudos to you for giving all those fun things a try! Maybe it will be surprisingly easy? I hope so. I was completely impressed when I read mac 'n cheese and pancakes with syrup and all sorts of kabobs.
Whoa. Novel. Sorry.
First of all, those moms get together to brag about what they do for their kids. Yes, a little variety every so often is nice, but seriously, Fae chose pb&h every.single.day. last year. I switched things around here and there...sent leftover cold pizza (a big treat!) or sliced strawberries or something, and still she'd come back to the same ol', same ol'.
I completely get your sarcasm. I was rolling my eyes the whole first half of your post. If your kids like ranch with their veggies, those little glad containers will hold some ranch AND baby carrot sticks. Good luck. I always hope I'll do better with lunches, but I'm not nearly organized enough and half the time I'm sending a little baggie (gasp!) of money to school for school lunch.
Keri, you should have consulted me before you caved. I have already solved the "Mom, I'm sick of peanut butter and honey sandwiches" problem. I started making peanut butter and Nutella sandwiches - it's like eating a Reese's. They love me! And that'll keep em going for another year at least :)
Keri, I know my kids ate the dessert, maybe the chips I sent, and mostly threw the other stuff away just so they could get out to recess sooner. And, I only did brown bags. I knew the lunch box or containers would never make it home. Sometimes it doesn't matter how hard you try! But they are all still alive and at least semi-healthy.
Yeah, the whole "cut your food into cute shapes" will never happen here unless my kids do it themselves. They have to pack their own lunches themselves, too, cuz I'm mean like that. I tell them they have to have a main dish of some kind (leftovers or sandwich), fruit AND veggie, and a drink. They can add chips to it if they want (which I bought a big box of Baked Lays variety pack at Costco. Ziplock bags are my container of choice. When they do take a tupperware, it somehow gets left in the box for days and is disgusting. If I want to do a special lunch for my kids, I buy a Lunchable (score!). If they're not cheap and time-consuming, they're not for me. I may has well be paying for a hot lunch.
I never thought to pack Zaya a napkin or hand sanitizer lol. I have seen a ton of lunch pins on Pinterest but am not organized enough to make it happen. You ARE an amazing mom and aunt! "Comparison is the thief of joy." Don't be hard on yourself!
sounds like it was a great night. i have to admit that i think there is a huge balance with lunches for kids. simple. quick. easy...those come to my mind quickly. My older kids pack their own...i do like some of the ideas though....and, it seems like a lot better lunches than I even eat at home! awesome.
hmmm Ben adores pb&j. and if I don't put a sandwich in his lunch I feel like I just sent him with a bunch of snacks! but I am lazy and LOVE to give him pretty much the same thing every day. he doesn't complain yet, and then on the random days I put something new in, it's like WHOA a treat! ;)
and that usually happens when i run out of bread and make him take a tupperware of dinner leftovers instead. ha.
But really.... I basically send him with pb&j (and yes, it's on organic whole grain bread with organic peanut butter. but that's what we eat anyway) a yogurt or applesauce, a babybel cheese or a string cheese, and some piece of fruit. whatever we happen to have laying around. If we're out of fruit I stick some carrots or veggies in. and if we're out of everything, he gets whatever random lunch-like foods I can find. I bought a thermos last year trying to be super cool and send him with fancy bento lunches, and I think I might have put something in it once. and then I got over it :)
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